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A Nigerian lady based in the UK was left permanently blind in one eye by her violent fiancé. She is angry at the Crown Prosecution Service after her case was initially dropped despite “overwhelming evidence” of the cause of her injuries.
Akorede Odutayo sustained life-changing injuries after being punched in the face by her partner just because she got icing on his clothes after presenting him with a birthday cake.
"I thought I was going to die. He just kept hitting me over and over again. Suddenly I heard something go pop and blood came gushing out everywhere but at the time I had no idea where it was coming from."
She spent three days in hospital but surgeons were unable to save her left eye. She now has to use a
glass replacement.
The mother-of-one, who had suffered years of domestic violence at the hands of her partner Ibrahim Akanbi, agreed to press charges against the father of her child.
But he was granted bail and initially the CPS decided to take no further action after Akanbi claimed he had acted in self defence. Akorede says she cried when she was told about the decision.
"I feel completely let down especially knowing all the evidence there was against him. I've even given them text messages he sent me admitting what he done."
After the police intervened, the CPS eventually reviewed their decision and charged Akanbi.
Ibrahim Akanbi was found guilty of grievous bodily harm last month at Woolwich crown court in London and was sentenced to three years in prison.
He would have escaped a conviction had police not appealed against a decision by the CPS last March to take no further action in the case.
“I feel I was completely failed by the CPS. If the police hadn’t appealed he could have got away with it despite the blatant evidence.”
Odutayo said she had endured a “painful waiting game” to see her former partner brought to justice after the attack on 11 January 2015, Akanbi’s birthday.
The couple were packing for a holiday Akorede had booked as a surprise when a row erupted after she put icing pieces from his birthday cake in his cupboard as a keepsake.
“He started chucking things at me and headbutted me, cutting his head on my tooth,” she said.
A Nigerian lady based in the UK was left permanently blind in one eye by her violent fiancé. She is angry at the Crown Prosecution Service after her case was initially dropped despite “overwhelming evidence” of the cause of her injuries.
Akorede Odutayo sustained life-changing injuries after being punched in the face by her partner just because she got icing on his clothes after presenting him with a birthday cake.
"I thought I was going to die. He just kept hitting me over and over again. Suddenly I heard something go pop and blood came gushing out everywhere but at the time I had no idea where it was coming from."
She spent three days in hospital but surgeons were unable to save her left eye. She now has to use a
glass replacement.
The mother-of-one, who had suffered years of domestic violence at the hands of her partner Ibrahim Akanbi, agreed to press charges against the father of her child.
But he was granted bail and initially the CPS decided to take no further action after Akanbi claimed he had acted in self defence. Akorede says she cried when she was told about the decision.
"I feel completely let down especially knowing all the evidence there was against him. I've even given them text messages he sent me admitting what he done."
After the police intervened, the CPS eventually reviewed their decision and charged Akanbi.
Ibrahim Akanbi was found guilty of grievous bodily harm last month at Woolwich crown court in London and was sentenced to three years in prison.
He would have escaped a conviction had police not appealed against a decision by the CPS last March to take no further action in the case.
Now Akorede, 23, who has a two-year-old son with Akanbi, has decided to speak out because she is worried other victims are not getting the justice they deserve. She said:
“I feel I was completely failed by the CPS. If the police hadn’t appealed he could have got away with it despite the blatant evidence.”
Odutayo said she had endured a “painful waiting game” to see her former partner brought to justice after the attack on 11 January 2015, Akanbi’s birthday.
The couple were packing for a holiday Akorede had booked as a surprise when a row erupted after she put icing pieces from his birthday cake in his cupboard as a keepsake.
“He started chucking things at me and headbutted me, cutting his head on my tooth,” she said.
Akorede, who had been on FaceTime to her sister at the time, added: “He then started punching me repeatedly and I ran to pick up the phone and screamed to my sister, but he chased me and started hitting me over and over until my face went numb. My eye was full of blood. There was blood all over my house, my clothes, the wall, the bed, it looked like a murder scene.”
After spending three days in hospital undergoing surgery, doctors told Akorede they had been unable to save the sight in her eye.
After spending three days in hospital undergoing surgery, doctors told Akorede they had been unable to save the sight in her eye.
She said: “I’ve lost my eye and then I find out they weren’t even going to charge him. He should have been on remand, he could have come back and taken my right eye. He was out there going on holiday and enjoying his life while I was going through hell.”
She said Akanbi apologised for his actions in a text message the day after the attack.
She said Akanbi apologised for his actions in a text message the day after the attack.
A crown prosecutor told police the CPS made the initial decision not to press charges because he had claimed it was Akorede who had headbutted him and he had acted in self-defence.
The truth was eventually discovered and he's now in prison serving his term
Source - TheGuardian/ITV
haba! this violence is too much!
ReplyDeleteWot will now happen to d boy
ReplyDeleteMe think the 3yrs was too small compared to the life sentence of her not seeing with her right eye again.
ReplyDeleteTh man needs deliverance
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...That's good for him. stupid tuat.
ReplyDeleteOlu, are you there?
ReplyDeleteLadies please do not pretend all is well while die in silent. Report any violent guy to authorities irrespective of how much you clam you love him to avoid permanent injury like this one.
What a tragedy, God save us from bad relationship. Pls ladies be wise
ReplyDeleteThree years imprisonment is not enough for the irreversible harm he has done to this girl
ReplyDeleteChai this is so sad, but she would have left the marriage a long time ago instead of waiting this long now see where it has landed her.
ReplyDeletethis is an act of wickedness...human being like u not only dat ur girlfriend
ReplyDeleteDomestic violence is disastrous! He should face d musik..
ReplyDeleteWhat a worthless piece of trash
ReplyDeleteMay be he is Chris Brown younger brother.
ReplyDeleteHow can you give her a permanent injury for such petty ish??? I can't deal...smh
ReplyDeleteHe should be in prison for a very long time. Useless man. How can you slapped or beat your the mother of your kids. This is wickedness
ReplyDeleteLadies becarful!
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