Please how do I handle this situation?? I am in a fixed,and I need your help.. I have an old family friend, we have come a very long way, she's almost my dad's age, though my dad is late now.
This woman has been disturbing me for a long period of two years now, but I couldn't fall for her flashy gifts and her so called love.
I confided in my close friend, he said I should have s*x with the woman...
But by the grace of God I'm a disciplined person, and I refused. A year ago before my father died, he always advice me that no matter how bad I become, I should never sleep with a married woman, and I know that's one thing I need to avoid in order to make my late dad happy wherever he is.
Right now I'm in my final year in University of Calabar, things has not been easy with me and my siblings, since my dad died, I have been the bread winner of the family because my mom suffered from stroke after my dad passed on..
I need some amount of money to round up in school with my project, I have looked for money everywhere, but it seems God has turned his face on me and my family.
This woman who is my last hope, has promised to give me the money and even more if only I reciprocate her advances, and my friend is insisting I do it.
But I'm so confused now, do I sleep with a married woman in order to get money, or listen to my fathers dead wishes and my self discipline..?? Please what do I do??
My life, family, education is at stake.
This woman has been disturbing me for a long period of two years now, but I couldn't fall for her flashy gifts and her so called love.
I confided in my close friend, he said I should have s*x with the woman...
But by the grace of God I'm a disciplined person, and I refused. A year ago before my father died, he always advice me that no matter how bad I become, I should never sleep with a married woman, and I know that's one thing I need to avoid in order to make my late dad happy wherever he is.
Right now I'm in my final year in University of Calabar, things has not been easy with me and my siblings, since my dad died, I have been the bread winner of the family because my mom suffered from stroke after my dad passed on..
I need some amount of money to round up in school with my project, I have looked for money everywhere, but it seems God has turned his face on me and my family.
This woman who is my last hope, has promised to give me the money and even more if only I reciprocate her advances, and my friend is insisting I do it.
But I'm so confused now, do I sleep with a married woman in order to get money, or listen to my fathers dead wishes and my self discipline..?? Please what do I do??
My life, family, education is at stake.
Olu you need to adjust your system time, it is 8:15 and it says you posted this at 10:00 am ... Anyway, he should go for the woman if he is te kind that doesn't bother about age
ReplyDeleteIts a curse dont do it
ReplyDeleteGod have mercy. Pray hard man cos our God will never abandon u as long as u look up to him
ReplyDeleteThere will always be another way. God that saw you through up to this moment won't leave you hanging at this time. That close friend of yours should be kept far from you. I suggest you go to your pastor for financial help that's if you are active in church. Challenge your maker, He will respond. #don'tcompromiseyourstandard. It may just be a way for the old hag to tie you down. Shameless woman.
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Bro me and u know is a sin before God I don't think u should have come out publicly for this it should have been ur mind and ur God and ur reasons before u say is people who lead u to sin u never wanted to do it but people said u should do it lol, one of my friend said woman don't go into prostitute bc they love sex but bc they need money also death don't have anything to do or to help to survives the living but the living will work hard to survive and also help d dead to rest in grave.
ReplyDeleteDnt sleep wiv her, b disciplined, God will snd hlp 2 u soonest were u least expect..inumidun
ReplyDeleteUr not doing it for your dad but yourself pls don't sleep with her.I knew what u are passing thru.but life will be worse for u if u sleep with her so the choice is yours.she want to take away your star.anytime God want to bless a man a lot of temptations will be coming but if u can stand your ground u will see victory.nenyekutes@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteDon't really know what to say.. but pray hard cuz adultery can as well steal your dreams spiritually.
ReplyDeleterun for your lifeeeeeee
ReplyDeleteBe careful and run for your dear before you go hook"""oooo
ReplyDeleteThe heart of every man is the engine the carried body both physically and economically.follow your heart.
ReplyDeletePls my brother obey your fathers advice.
ReplyDeleteDont do it please. Because if you try it someone Will also sleep with your wife
ReplyDeleteNever you try it. God will make a way surely.Dont give up.
ReplyDeleteDon't dare place a curse on yourself. It might be dangerous. God will tak charge. Run to him.
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#Olu,can you see?
Well, for me i would have advise you to sleep with her. After all, is not a new thing my guy. So, use what you have to get what you need.
ReplyDeleteWhat you won't eat you don't sniff at. By seeking an advise on this matter, I doubt if you are truly disciplined as you claims. Let your No be No!
ReplyDeleteGod has not turn his eyes away frm u, Infact he knws wat ur going through and he has the solution at the tip of is finger his a suprime God he chooses wen to answer u can't question his authority. I will advice u not to sleep with the woman apart frm ur fathers wish it is forbidden to sleep with a married trust me u dnt wnt ruine ur future pls stay clear nd stay clear frm dat ur frd dat is advising u do such evil thing his not a frd but a destiny killer.... All I will say keep having faith pray our God is not a wicked God he knws wat his doing u will be shock how u will pay dat money without doing anything with anybody
ReplyDeletedon't do it because u don't no if its a temptation from God or from ur late father to see d kind of person u r...........remember it is written in d bible dat wen 1 door closes another opens.stick to ur words and abstain from friends advice.
ReplyDeleteThe woman is a devil dat wants to collapse ur future because she nos dat u r a star
ReplyDeleteDon't even try. Take it to prayer and ask fellow church members for support
ReplyDeleteSleep with a married woman, your destiny goes into sleep eternally.God forbid.My brother run for your life,for that is abomination before the Almighty GOD.
ReplyDeleteSleep with a married woman, your destiny goes into sleep eternally.God forbid.My brother run for your life,for that is abomination before the Almighty GOD.
ReplyDeletemr man dont try it, respect you dad last wish and shame the devil. Godwill make a way for you
ReplyDeletedamn her and look up to God.She is not your helper,God will raise people that will help you,if not now or later.
ReplyDeleteThose are the hurdles of greatness, in life. The ruler of this world (Satan) knows what God has in store for you. So, do not compromise your stand, over an act, that even the Bible condemns. The Lord is your strength.
ReplyDeleteDo not sleep with the woman, ignore your friends advice infact run away from that your evil friend.
ReplyDeleteHold on to GOD HE will surprise you.
Yo have signed your death warant
ReplyDeleteI beg listen to ur Dead father wishes.God will spring a surprise.
ReplyDeleteYou have already concluded that God has turned his face on you, you now have regards to your late fathers words and not what god said concerning that act of adultery. You better go back to God and forget her or else you will sleep with her and she will not still help you. God is your helper not that woman.
ReplyDeleteDon't ever sleep with a married woman, it's a curse. Just look somewhere else to borrow the money needed
ReplyDeletesometimes in life u face all those things setback, confusion and other likes of it but i tell they are all temporary setback. and ability of one to overcome it is what denote you a man.So my advice for you is don't do what she is demanding from you because she wants to help you. no one even know is she wants to take away your bright star...hacken to the word of ur father God will provide for you sooner than expected..thanks
ReplyDeleteO ye of little faith, without her you can still survive not until you go to bed with her.
ReplyDeleteI will advice U dnt do it ooo, help will come if U have faith
ReplyDeleteProverb 1 vs 10....read it and take ur decision
ReplyDeleteRun for your dear life before you will be enslave by her
ReplyDeleteU better run o ha
ReplyDeleteStick to your stand on this matter. Continue with your discipline and obey your late father. Pray to God, and I'm sure He'll make a way
ReplyDeleteU better run as fast as you can o
ReplyDeleteI advise you go to SCOAN To meet our able prophet of God, Prophet TB JOSHUA. He is the only one that can help you. It is better to enter heaven without a degree than going hell with degree you got through adultery money.
ReplyDeleteThat is just a temptation from the devil. Stay true and u will be surprised that after u have overcomed it,better help will surface.Don't ever sell ur future and ur integrity because of money.
ReplyDeletePls my brother God will help u. Devil want to destroy u. Pls don't give in to his trick. Helper must come. God bless u
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