As you read this, Mrs Christina Onwuliri the daughter in-law to Ex-president Goodluck Jonathan’s Minister of State for Foreign Affairs and later State for Education, has accused her mother in-law, Lady Viola Onwuliri of undue interference in the affairs of her home, whereby posing herself as a decision maker before issues of husband and wife would be carried out.
According to her, the former Minister made herself a mini-god in the lives of her male children, particularly her husband, Chukwuemeka Osmond Eleihe Onwuliri which makes it unbearable for their wives to handle family issues without the widowed former Minister’s interference.
Few years after their marriage, Christina has revealed that it’s been war between her, the former minister and son over her undue and unhealthy interference in the relationship of her children’s marriages.
“Since our marriage was contracted, my mother in-law has continually decided what happens in my home, thereby having undue and unhealthy interference in the relationship with my husband.
“Between 2011 and 2014, while I was living in Port Harcourt with my husband, he physically and mentally abused me. For example, when arguments concerning on way forward in the marriage, he gets infuriated and physically beats me and locks me up in the toilet for as long as he wishes,” she stated.
As informed, the current happenings which has escalated to the very level of the daughter in-law being locked out of her matrimonial home by her husband after being manhandled and abused by him has been a matter of review before the Nigeria Police and Human Right office in Abuja.
Not only that the former Minister influenced the reason to what made her son to lock his fully married wife out from their matrimonial home, she also went further to separate the daughter in-law from her two daughters who are of two and three years old through alleged abduction.
“When we arrived to the family house in Owerri, I noticed the presence of a Catholic priest, a serving Honourable member of the State House of Assembly and few others that I don’t know their names. Later, I noticed that my husband picked up a bag and was leaving without prior information to me. Cautiously, I approached him to know where he was going, but to my greatest surprise, he violently pushed me into a room and locked me up.
“At that point, I saw those men taking my children away without my consent. Then, I started screaming and was helpless but had no option than to start breaking the window panes in the room to get myself out. When they saw I was breaking the glasses, one of the drivers opened the door and I came out shouting for help, and then my children were nowhere to be found.”
She stressed that they equally seized her academic papers, traveling passports, Canadian residential documents alongside her personal belongings. A plan Lady Onwuliri perfectly carried out with the help of the above mentioned cohorts.
Over the failed move by the Nigeria Police to intervene into the matter, she said that the State Commissioner of Police in Imo State withdrew his men from it, even as he tagged it a marital issue that his commission cannot handle.
Sensing foul play in the handling of her case, the troubled wife has called on the Human Right Commission to please thoroughly investigate the matter before it's too late.
Violence people are always so, well it's quite a pity shall.
ReplyDeleteNawa ooh unbelievable story some mother-in law is wahala.nenyekutes@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteShey U̶̲̥̅̊ got married 2 an influencial family. Enjoy infuence. But U̶̲̥̅̊ knew ur mother-inilaw has been always been like dis? Love n infuence covered ur eyes that time...
DeleteMother in-law why the interference.u have forgotten that u ve ur own daughters too and u are a daughter inlaw too.
ReplyDeleteWhy are some mother in-laws like that nah?
ReplyDeleteWicked mother in law. Just because u have money you think u can play God. God is bigger than u.
ReplyDeleteWen poor go to rich house they will expect them to warship them like God that they don't have any say if not the one they say and any they u try to challenge them it own don finish bc they believe they have everything and u poor don't have any.
ReplyDeleteThats wickedness
ReplyDeleteToo bad of him
ReplyDeleteUsing power to torment a fellow human. Really bad!
ReplyDeleteOh no! This is quite very unfair! The human rights commission, should pls, intervene.
ReplyDeleteWicked woman, werin concern her wiv d happenings in her son's home, she's using power anihw 2 her personal gain..inumidun
ReplyDeleteNawaooobb!!
ReplyDeleteViola gas always been like that,right from when she was still a lecturer at FUTO.she is so bossy and a control freak. Ain't surprised.
ReplyDeleteMarriages this days is annoying
ReplyDeleteDon't know why marriages this days are full of issues.
ReplyDeleteD woman should just face her life nd leave d Children's marriages. u av used ur own time na.
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#Olu,can you see?
Very wicked mother in law. Ladies use your brain these days to avoid embarrassment. Ladies yearning for rich guy..... Use your head!
ReplyDeleteThis is Unbelievable. He is so irresponsible
ReplyDeleteApart from the police, there are other civil society groups that handle cases of domestic violence. If as young couple, you have started going through this hell, what will become of the marriage n the future?Lady! you better think twice
ReplyDeleteWickedness in display.
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Though her story call for pity but justice can be done to this if we have opportunity to listen to the other party ( husband & mother in law),marital issues go beyond what people see outside, only the couple can tell what they cope with under their roof. If truly this lady was locked up in the toilet & her children were taken away without her consent, those two offences are call assault & kidnapping, which are punishable offences.
ReplyDeleteThough her story call for pity but justice can be done to this if we have opportunity to listen to the other party ( husband & mother in law),marital issues go beyond what people see outside, only the couple can tell what they cope with under their roof. If truly this lady was locked up in the toilet & her children were taken away without her consent, those two offences are call assault & kidnapping, which are punishable offences.
ReplyDeleteProf. Onwuliru's son wud hav bin a better title.must they rope oga jona in evry tin.
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Hmm...the Human Right Commission should please help this lady. She has suffered enough
ReplyDeleteWhen she wa enjoying their money who did she tell? It's your marital life, you have to face it. Some ladies are fond of marrying rich guys they don't bother courting with the man for a long time to know atleast 50% of his characters, they are always in a haste to be called mrs rich man. When they sart facing the problem is when they raise alarm. When you were getting married to him you agreed to stay for better or for worst. This is the worst time now so face it.
ReplyDeleteWell.... She wants to enjoy
DeleteMother in law and there wahala God help us the wives
ReplyDeleteWhy allow the son to marry in the first place wen U know U want to take evry decision in his life. Sum women sef sabi fall hand, ds kinda case nids more media attention cos she wnt win if she keep fighting it herself
ReplyDeleteWhat is the use of Jonathan's name in this story. bad belle people
ReplyDeleteShe failed to tell us why they beat her, lock her, took away her children then seized her travel documents.
ReplyDeleteSo u ar still playing politics with your children's home?
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#Olu,can you see?
There is no human right in Ibo marriage,that's how its been played out when woman is no longer wanted..she should contact the necessary autority for help.
ReplyDeleteAnd everyone that truly knows Kristina, knows that she's a chronic liar. She used to be a street girl n was involved in all the vices one could ever think of.
ReplyDeleteWhy would she drag her MIL to this case? Her MIL never got a hint of what her son has been passing through all these years. Emeka has been trying to cover up all his marital issues, instead off washing his dirty linen in public. Yet everyone is blaming him for not speaking up. Is it a crime that a man tried to contain his problems, instrad of involving a 3rd party, up until his so-called wife became a threat to his life? Kristina has never raised a finger in her life to work, but she had everything a woman could possibly ask for. She had threatened to kill her husband n children severally n u still feel the children should be left with her.
Kristina Amaefule, the first step to being successfully treated of ur mental issues is by accepting u have one. Ur MIL has never for once stayed with u. She even treated u like her daughter. U have even admitted to her being selfless on several occasions. She wasnt even present on the day u claim ur children were taken away from u. U're just a GOLDDIGGER n a MAD WOMAN. N u'll not go scot-free for smearing an innocent family's reputation in the mud.
If u could extend ur wickedness to ur own children, then what more is left. Ur husband just had to bring u back cos u were on the verge of killing him. U never worked, never raised a finger to do any chores at home, couldnt wven raise ur own kids. U've had over 20 househelps in just barely 5yrs of marriage. N u've even attempted to beat one to death. U simply need Jesus in ur life. U think u're smart by running to social blogs to spread lies. If u think u're being maltreated, then quietly go back to ur Father's house.
And to everyone dropping a comment on this blog, be sure of ur facts before taking the matter on ur head. No point dropping abuses because u feel the woman must be the offended. Every woman here has a mother, n i'm sure u wouldnt want a sister-in-law like Christina neither would u want u mum to be humiliated this way.So use ur tongue to count ur teeth. If h have nothing reasonable to say, dont say anything at all. N yes i know a lot of people will still abuse me. But whatever happens, the truth remains the truth.
All of you saying Emeka should have quietly gone to treat his wife have no inkling into what it is to live with a psychopath .
ReplyDeleteDid you all follow the story of Lowo Ajanaku . Please google the name if you don't know what am talking about. Lowo had misunderstanding with his wife and she grabbed a knife and stabbed him. People came round to make peace. The poor guy listened to the voice of reason from concerned neighbors and friends. He went to treat himself in the hospital got back home and went to bed.
What happened next? The poor guy was deep in sleep when the wife drove a knife down his throat and killed him.
This is exactly what would have happened to Emeka. Emeka couldn't sleep again in Canada because once instinct woke him up just in time to see Kristina advancing with a knife to stab him. Wether she is mentally ill or feigning it. Kristina was fed up with being married and wanted to eliminate her husband. Investigation carried out on all the house helps that served her said she hardly touched her kids. All this cries about Bing back my daughters. If those kids are given to her believe me ske will kill them.
It is so very obvious that a lot of people are just jealous of this very great Amazon of our time. PROFESSOR VIOLA ADAKU ONWULIRI!
ReplyDeleteMost of you haters will never be able to fill up a page of A4 paper with your achievements. Well she has achieved what she has achieved and you can't take it away from her.
Call her all sorts of names from now till kingdom come you haters will never come as close as what she has achieved.
Emeka and Kristina has never lived with her. So how is she interfering.
She does not need to pay anyone for truth to be told. You haters should keep ranting. All I know is Chris Ahamefula's ATM has just expired! Deal with it.
Naa waa ooo. Someone just called my attention to this. Kristinaaaaa!!! Why did you have to go public on this. God sees all our actions oo. Haa. Must be your father pushing you to do this. You know the truth. Why allow your father to do this to you. And your sweet mother in law. Despite any of her short comings NEVER EVER interfered in your marriage. You know this. It's because she is a public figure that is why am thinking your father is using that means to try to embarrass her. But let us fear God. Truth will always come to light no matter how long it takes. But I saw you and your husband Emeka jogging around the neighborhood after you arrived from this particular trip from Canada . So what went wrong. I feel sorry for you ooo. Long after this media fiasco is done and out you will be left in the cold all alone without your Emeka whom you have mentioned was your life wire. I am afraid of you ending up staying with your father as he may injure you. Let your father know you are grown woman now and those beatings of yester years should stop. Please try and reconcil with your husband am sure you guys can sort yourselves out without people's opinions of this and that. Don't allow people into your private world. Good luck. Will try to come see you personally.
ReplyDeleteOk, so let me get this straight. The daughter of a known documented abuser, Mr. Amaefule of IMSU, is accusing others of abuse....classic psychological projection of one's bad behaviour on other people to justify it or to prove we are all the same. Study your psychology. I will say that family is riddled with Mental Illness
ReplyDeleteI just hate when GREEDY, LAZY, NIGERIAN GIRLS attempt blackmail with this kink of posts. And my goal is to expose such girls so they stop tarnishing the image of we women.
ReplyDeleteI like this one - always easy to see when the details are true - so the girl almost killed a housemaid in port...
Kristina....all I can say is the law of karma will catch up with you and your father. This family loved you so much despite your very short comings. They made you comfortable , you have never earned a dime in your life. You married a straight As student...who gave his all to you. He saw you, loved you, married you , took you round the world. You were found wanting as a wife. But he never disclosed it even to his mother. Your mother in law whom you are claiming interfered in your marriage pampered you like there's no tomorrow . You were treated like a princess. May be you should tell the world how you were changing house helps every month....why? Simply because you were too wicked to them. We will not hesitate to bring doctors report on how you beat one of your house helps to coma..you are here talking about human right. Tell them how you burnt your daughters right cheek out of carelessness. Did you ever sit down to feed them well. You never worked or eaned a dime.. But you shopped all around the world with your husbands card and he never for once complained. You were enrolled into school abroad so that you could get busy and get a degree but you delisted yourself...your father has a record in the police as an abusive man who beats women . So this behavior is actually innate in you. For those who don't know the real story and are believing her, all I have to say is that may you and your family have a daughter in law like Kristina .
Christina almost killed her house help in port Harcourt because she said she took a scoop of her baby's milk to drink tea. She beat her until she fainted and had to be rushed to d hospital. At d hospital when asked what happened Christina lied to the doctor that she suspected the girl was pregnant and tried to abort it. But when the doctor examined the girl ..He found out she was still a virgin and had not even started her monthly circle. That is the kind of person Christina is. Very crafty and a good schemer. She knew emeka was very naive and went for him. She hardly even took care of her own kids...This is the truth. All this cries about her kids being taken from her.
ReplyDeleteI just read in pointblank that the Onwuliri's have tried four times to deliver her bags and documents to her and her wicked Father refused each time.
ReplyDeleteSo why are they claiming they seized her documents - chai, people can lie
Are you trying to hangon to your husbands family by keeping your bag there.
Then they go around shouting that she has only one clothe.
This is just the beginning, when that man finishes with you, you will understand
Kristina my friend please stop all this. You have always told me the Onwuliri's have been good to you and your family. That your mother in law was your role model. So what went wrong. .
ReplyDeletePeople who knew Kristina knew she was a time bomb waiting to explode. Let truth be told, she was said to be extremely lucky when she married into this very noble family. It is obvious she and her family are jealous of the Onwuliris that is why they want to soil their name.
ReplyDeleteHaba Kristina! You and your family had it so good with this family....Emeka never lifted his hands on you. You were the one maltreating him and he never voiced it out to anyone. He was dying in silence. Now you are dragging everyone in... Shame on you Kristina. Remember your past records in OWERRI before God gave you this humble husband and a wonderful mother in law. ...life isn't easy out there ...you just made a mess of your life. And you know the kind of father you have. Let's just hope he doesn't kill you this time.
Let us just pray for them.
ReplyDeleteAnd pray that the girl stop proving she is mentally ill by posting the same post on every news blog like a mad-woman.
everybody has heard your story - go to your human rights commission but understand that if you are guilty of any of the things your husband described and if somehow they have PROOF, then you will experience a higher level of disgrace by that authority and all other authorities thereafter. You might even get yourself arrested or detained for violence, etc.
This is why i suspect these social media posts. When a person is guilty they go to build propaganda on social media, but when a person is innocent, they go to the real authorities and follow up quietly. Goodluck to you all
Two things
ReplyDelete1) Stop Bringing GEJ into your marital failings
2) If you have a mental illness go for treatment. Bipolar patients do well on Lithium.
3) Call your husband and keep your marriage private. It is for better or worse. If I didnt read your blog post when you wer traveling to Dubai, Abu Dhabi, US, France, UK, etc ..... Don't write rubbish now because you were repatriated back to Nigeria. It is unfair and the poor readers out there . We sef go post our own family matter ooooo
I can see the paid media idiot who has been posting the same accusations against her on every blog.... Copy and paste u will all be shamed soon.
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