Below is a brief except from a chat Encomium had with actress Halima Abubakar:
You had said you’re not interested in marriage any longer. Why did you concluded on that?
Yes, because marriage has been overrated. It’s unnecessarily over rated. It’s just too much of headache with how things are now. Even ordinary relationship is a huge burden, huge headache and heartbreaking, let alone marriage. When you can’t stand each other as boyfriend and girlfriend, how would you live together under the same roof when you get married?
People need to know themselves seriously. When I say seriously, I mean spiritually before getting married. People only know themselves physically, not spiritually, so they end up getting bored with each other. And they will say they don’t want to get divorce because of what society would say after investing so much on the marriage.
People need to know themselves seriously. When I say seriously, I mean spiritually before getting married. People only know themselves physically, not spiritually, so they end up getting bored with each other. And they will say they don’t want to get divorce because of what society would say after investing so much on the marriage.
- Any marriage where prayer is absent is just living on borrowed time, it can't stand the test of time.
She said the truth. Every relationship that lacks spirituality will always end up in dustbin of history. Unfortunately what young people are looking for now is just the physical which is only vainglorious and that's why many marriages are in turmoil. Until humanity begin to seek the face of God in relationship they won't go far and life is never complete without a n help mate. We should always remember old age
ReplyDeleteIs okey nw we knw
ReplyDeleteShe is not serious. Her parents got married and they lived happily despite their differences. Why she can't get marry.........its her choice. She better do something before it's too late
ReplyDeleteWell for my own point of view a successful marriage is built base on prayer and understanding one another and base on every party knowing his stand cos that's why our parents marriages succeeded unlike the marriages of nowadays with woman claiming equal right with man
ReplyDeleteabiii ooo marriage no be force expecially nowaday.
ReplyDeleteShe is 100% right....marriage is more of spiritual than physical.
ReplyDeleteWell said
ReplyDeleteActress Halima has said it all. She just gave a clue to young couples who are new in marriage and unto those who may be planning on settling down with their partners to follow.
ReplyDeleteWELL SAID. MARRIAGE IS MORE THAT WHAT WE SEE.IT IS VERY DEEP THE RECORD NEED TO UNDERSTAND UT PROPERTY BEFORE TAKE THOSE VOWS ELSE'S IT WILL CRASH ON THE WAY.
ReplyDeleteShe is right somehow.
ReplyDeleteMarriage without proper prayers mostly hits d rocks..
ReplyDeleteMarriage without proper prayers mostly hits d rocks..
ReplyDeleteShe made a point......but marriage is 100% physical abs 100% spiritual.
ReplyDeleteconfirmento! she is very right!
ReplyDelete#Olu,can you see?