A young man needs advise, he said his brother's new girlfriend is tearing their family apart:
I have two siblings, including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.
My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am.
As expected, when you go to people's house, you do what they do...
If they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.
First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but I endured.
And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat ewedu soup, but he ate it. I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.
Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with his girlfriend and she was giving her attitude. Even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight.
That's not the end, he got her a new Phone, meanwhile my phone's touch pad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it.
Seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.
And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like his girlfriend?" But I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him because I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's bringing badluck to our peaceful family.
Please what do you think? Should I tell my brother the truth?
they should drive her Away from d house na!
ReplyDeleteone thing u should know is dat she might have been telling ur brother negative things about u & ur sister & how u hate her,so telling ur brother d truth might cause more problem than it will solve.so i'll advice u to use ur brain
ReplyDeleteBoth the brother N sister should thread softly on how to follow her in order for her not to poison their brothers mind against them
ReplyDeleteJesus Christ..there is more to dz
ReplyDeleteTell your brother the truth for God sake that lady is bad news o cos she would end up dividing your family
ReplyDeleteU have 2 sit ur bro down, explain things 2 him, make him c things d way u pple are seeing it, I knw @ times dey say love is blind, so u need 2 open his eyes. Nd if he refuses 2 change, sit d girl down and make her realize u all love her bt dia are certain things u xpect from her nd she is nt doing. Its possible she dosnt c it d way u all are seeing it, mayb as a result of her background. Open her eyes 2 it nd I believe if she is reasonable enough, she will change. Nd if having done dat dey both refuses, den get ready 2 c a pastor
ReplyDeleteKindly check headline, My is the word there
ReplyDeleteI will suggest you tell your brother the truth about girlfriend and the way she is tearing your family apart
ReplyDeleteAs a lady coming to your bf's house, you are supposed to be a source of peace, unity and love and not the other way round. Though there were some childish and irrelevant things he mentioned such as using a particular seasoning to cook etc. lol. He should tell his brother what he sincerely feels but with live and respect.
ReplyDeleteBe mature in ur judgement. And do the needful.
ReplyDeleteYour brother don eat vegetable. All you need to do is to pray for Brother
ReplyDeleteTelling him we bring more damage
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