A 39-year-old school proprietor, Mrs. Hassana Yusuf on Thursday told an Igando Customary Court that her husband, Mr Adisa Yusuf, once entered her own mother’s room stark nak*d.
“He was nak*d in front of our children and went to meet my mum in her room stark nak*d. My mother had to cover her eyes", the wife said in frustration.
NAN reports that she in the case is seeking the dissolution of her 11-year old marriage to Mr Yusuf.
At the resumed hearing of the case on Thursday, Hassana accused her estranged husband of battering, lack of care for her and her children, threat to life, blackmail and absence of love.
“When our third born was sick, he wanted to go out and I refused to allow him. I said that our child must not die, but the next thing I saw was that he stripped himself nak*d.
“If I agree to keep providing for the family, there won’t be any problem, provided he would be nice to me and the children. But since I have refused to keep shouldering his responsibilities, he became a demon.
“He said he will kill me and take over what we both laboured for; he boasts that nobody will question him," she said. The wife also told the court that her husband was in the habit of accusing her.
“There was a day we fought and he hit me with a nail on my head. On more than three occasions in 2012, he abandoned me and the children. He once left the house for a year," she said.
As usual, the husband denied all the allegations.
“I had to show my mother-in-law what her daughter normally does to me whenever I tell her there is no money. She usually stripes me nak*d. That was why I went to her room nak*d.
“I earn N30,000 every month and I give her everything. Does that not show my love for her and the children?" he told the court.
Adisa accused his wife of unfaithfulness. “She has so many boyfriends, I have evidence to show that she is unfaithful, my fellow landlords are her boyfriends."
The husband even said that he doubts the paternity of their last child.
The court President, Adegboyega Omilola, said the couple to attend ADR meeting on March 3.
The case was then adjourned to June 28, for final judgment, based on the outcome of the meeting.
“He was nak*d in front of our children and went to meet my mum in her room stark nak*d. My mother had to cover her eyes", the wife said in frustration.
NAN reports that she in the case is seeking the dissolution of her 11-year old marriage to Mr Yusuf.
At the resumed hearing of the case on Thursday, Hassana accused her estranged husband of battering, lack of care for her and her children, threat to life, blackmail and absence of love.
“When our third born was sick, he wanted to go out and I refused to allow him. I said that our child must not die, but the next thing I saw was that he stripped himself nak*d.
“If I agree to keep providing for the family, there won’t be any problem, provided he would be nice to me and the children. But since I have refused to keep shouldering his responsibilities, he became a demon.
“He said he will kill me and take over what we both laboured for; he boasts that nobody will question him," she said. The wife also told the court that her husband was in the habit of accusing her.
“There was a day we fought and he hit me with a nail on my head. On more than three occasions in 2012, he abandoned me and the children. He once left the house for a year," she said.
As usual, the husband denied all the allegations.
“I had to show my mother-in-law what her daughter normally does to me whenever I tell her there is no money. She usually stripes me nak*d. That was why I went to her room nak*d.
“I earn N30,000 every month and I give her everything. Does that not show my love for her and the children?" he told the court.
Adisa accused his wife of unfaithfulness. “She has so many boyfriends, I have evidence to show that she is unfaithful, my fellow landlords are her boyfriends."
The husband even said that he doubts the paternity of their last child.
The court President, Adegboyega Omilola, said the couple to attend ADR meeting on March 3.
The case was then adjourned to June 28, for final judgment, based on the outcome of the meeting.
See gobe shall.
ReplyDeleteInfidelity.
ReplyDeleteSounds like mental illness
ReplyDeleteOne thing about couple's fight is that there will be many shocking revelations.
ReplyDeleteThis one is a serious issue, dnt evn know wht to say.. Hope dey find a common ground bcos of the children
ReplyDeleteOnce we are lovers now we are enemies, see let me tell u, no body is above mistakes but always be the one to call ur partner around the corner and ask him or her what is d problem what makes u angry let's surve this I am sorry do it always bc for love no ego bc life is nothing as u are husband and wife u have become one fighting each other is like fighting ur self pls couples should no that Satan is busy always looking who will fall into his net going to court can't help but both of u can help and go away the problems is just simple .
ReplyDeletePls leave him n go until his mind come down.nenyekutes@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteNa wa oooooohhh!
ReplyDeleteGod please show mercy on the couple, let love and peace reign in their marriage amen
ReplyDeleteNa wa o...but wanting to show your mother-in-law what her daughter usually do to you doesn't mean u should go to her room naked nah!
ReplyDeleteMarry a good spouse and save ur self unnecessary headaches
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This is serious. Who is at fault cus am confuse
ReplyDeleteMen are really suffering in the name of marriage,
ReplyDeleteSo he should walk into his mother in law's room naked to prove that what happened? He is simply a mad man
DeleteLet them settle amicably. Marriage no be joke.
ReplyDeleteFamily issues
ReplyDeleteThat's irresponsible and disrespectful of him.
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Am sure Aunty Bola can advice on dis
ReplyDeleteThat man must be suffering from psychoneurotic is not worth to be a husband, imagine the mother in-law open “the gate” for him maybe he would have had canal knowledge of her. But we should not erased the issues of accidental scene.
ReplyDeleteWell, most of family problems begins when husband notices her wife is unfaithful,no man on planet earth will like that.Thereby, causing limitation to the amount of love,happiness,comfort, and other likes of it. So, in order to avoid all these trash,every couple need to cleave to a faithful way of living.
ReplyDeleteSee gobe
ReplyDeletehmmm. #Sighs. Things are happening. #Endtime marriages.
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#Olu,can you see?
Things we hear dis days though
ReplyDeleteWell! Hope, their case is resolved amicably, at least for the sake of the children.
ReplyDeleteKatakata don burst, wuh will he achieve wiv all ds naked waka abt..inumidun
ReplyDeleteWe don't know who is saying the truth
ReplyDeleteOlu famous second wife