Dear Aunty Temi,
After my father died four years ago, his friend has been the one supporting my mother and I. Last year, our landlord gave us a quit notice and my late father’s friend offered us accommodation in his home. He and his wife were very kind to us. I was very happy and comfortable with them until their son returned from the U.S. He pressurised me to be his lover and I told him that wasn’t possible. He eventually r*ped me and deflowered me in the process.
I told my mum and she said I shouldn’t ever say anything about it again...
Because my mum didn't say or do anything about it, now he always want to have carnal knowledge of me at the slightest opportunity. I’m scared and don’t know what to do.
- Janet, 19
Below is Aunty Temi's reply to Jane...
To say I was aghast when I read Jane’s message is to say the least. I called her on the phone and inquired if there’s someone she could tell her ordeal if she no longer felt safe living there and she told me there was no one she could open up to except me. I empathised with her and advised her to tell her r*pist’s mother. At first she was very scared and hesitant until he r*ped her a second time and the thought of getting pregnant scared her.
When she informed me about the second r*pe incident, I had to convince her to report the incident to the boy’s mother assuring her that as God lives, she would never regret her action. Surprisingly, she reported the case to the boy’s mother the following day and sent me this text:
Aunty Temi,
I called you severally today but you didn’t pick your phone. I actually wanted to tell you that I told his mum about it. She was so angry with him and threatened to get him imprisoned next time he touches me and that he’ll be returning to the U.S. in the next two weeks. Thank you aunty Temi, I don’t know what I’d have done without you. And thank God the woman has been extra kind to me.
- Jane
Aunty Temi's conclusion...
Jane may have been spared the nightmare of being forced to have s*x but I tell you her mother has laid a very bad foundation for her. Now that Jane has just gained admission into the university and has inadequate funding for her needs, how on earth won’t she be tempted when men offer to take care of her needs while she “services” them in return?
by Temilolu Okeowo
To be continued...







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ReplyDeleteDidn't she enjoy it? Some people mistake pleasure for rape
ReplyDeleteI pray ur blood shouldn't witness wat dey call rape
DeleteMay God forgive you for thinking that way!
DeleteAmen thanks! I didn't say what the guy did was right, all I'm saying is, the girl might have enjoyed it for allowing him to do it the second time
DeleteLife full of wonders
ReplyDeleteNot good atall
ReplyDeleteSome mothers! Oh, i don't know. She has succeeded in ruining her daughter's life. There is no way this girl, in question will not start sleeping around, given the fact that, she has tasted it.
ReplyDeleteSometimes poverty always push some mother to let there daughter do what is not there mind bc they have no hope buy one place they always afriad of the rich people, that is why education is good when ur educated u will no ur right hand and light hand with money and without money u will jot be intimidate.
ReplyDeleteWhat rubbish
ReplyDeleteToo bad
ReplyDeleteThank God that the mother of boy is a God fearing mother. Glory be to God.
ReplyDeleteD guy is a monster for raping dat girl.
ReplyDeleteWhich kind mother be dis nw? If not for the rapist's mother.
ReplyDeleteolutoscene1@gmail.com
#Olu,can you see?
This is bad attitudes. The young man needs to be slapped with common sense to his brain
ReplyDeleteReally sad!
ReplyDeleteToo bad
ReplyDeleteToo bad
ReplyDeleteSome women don't deserve to be called mothers. Thank God the guy's mum did something to salvage the situation.
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And she kept mute kmt
ReplyDeleteIt was without her consent... Simple... Itz nt a mata of enjoy it or not
ReplyDeleteHer mother is a bad influence. Sad!
ReplyDeleteBarry
Femi fex u shouldn't have talk like that her case is pathetic.
ReplyDeleteHer mother was very selfish. She was only this king of what they would lose if her daughter had made some noise. Thank God for the other woman.
ReplyDeleteToo bad
ReplyDeleteIfy
Hmm... Poverty! That's the problem with the girl's mum. When someone has really suffered, it makes him or her to do unimaginable things; that is why she could tell her daughter to never say anything about the rape incident... Thank God for the guy's mother
ReplyDeleteSaddening, one of d numerous repercussions of poverty..inumidun
ReplyDeleteSend me his name and his State, he will be arrested, you will be fly to US to come and help to put him to jail
ReplyDeleteDefinitely Jane's mother too might not happy about the raped incident on her daughter but fear of poverty & what might happened if Jane let cat of bag or she might wish the Yankee returnee impregnate Jane, to enable her have assess to their wealth. Thank God the lady is saved @ last having heed to the advised given to her
ReplyDeletePeople are really going through bad situations in Nigeria and nobody is helping them out. sorry dear God will provide for your education.
ReplyDeleteHeya sorry dear but you need to speak up
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