Small Girls, Relax! See why Men Should Marry a Working Lady

I don't agree with everything here because I believe a lady who has been trained to be a good wife will be, either she is working in a office or running a business full time or part time. But let's hear him out:

So much relationship concerns are running in the minds of people, in particular between young folks. Most young guys and ladies are asking many questions concerning their relationship. Some of the questions asked are if it is alright for a working class man to date a girl still in tertiary school with the mindset of marrying her. Some guys are complaining that they found their girlfriend with another guy if they should break up the relationship?

These are why some relationships that have lasted for months and years end abruptly. Details...

This article focuses on why you should marry a lady who is working. It doesn’t mean I am against dating a lady still studying in school, but am against dating a lady that still thinks as she is in school.

The climax of this article is that dating a working class lady has much more advantage than dating an undergrad. Why? Below are my reasons:

1. Better At Managing Money
Dating a working class lady is so good because she knows and feels the condition of the economy. When she spends, she does it with sense and not like ladies who don’t know that making cash is hard and spends anyhow. With this kind of lady, you don’t need to worry about the way your finance is being spent.

2. Maturity
Going through work stress builds up maturity in her. Even though girls have a general nature; there is still a difference you will see between a working lady and an undergrad. Matured ladies are mostly needed for dating and not just ladies that begs for recharge cards all the time.

3. Her Hospitality Is Heightened
It is expected she has overcome the "Me Alone" character because a part of her salary goes to her family, probably. Sometimes, she transfers some to her siblings. Most of the time, she is left with a little. At those times, her display picture will change to "Family is all". True! Those lads in her workplace will be questioning, "what's she doing with her cash?". Now you grasp. You can be sure she will be wise with money and you guys can plan together easier.

4. She Has A 'better' View On What She Need In Her Man.
She has met guys before you, so her taking you is more of her "last resort". She'll respect you well.

5. Less Time for Irregular/Childish Stuff
It's hard to find a lady working who is preoccupied with work, find time to live irresponsibly (partying). It might exist but only in limited cases. More often than not, she kills time with her dearest besties, not with any guy. If she is ALWAYS on Facebook, forget her. At least, you can tell she has a vision, a feeling, an impulse. Even if she is less occupied, she tries to improve her tailoring, dancing or other skill. She dislikes being idle. Above all, silly stuff like making money out of guys is a NO for her.

6. Work Exposure
Having to work with other wedded co-workers of hers, she gets to know the real necessities of every man thus growing into matrimony with some form of appropriate knowledge. (Just hope she doesn't meet the wrong women at work).

Source: Lover Secretz

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  1. I support partly....


    Olu famous second wife

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  2. I've always known I ain't going to marry a girl jobless woman let a lone girl..its a no no!! Espcialy d fact most girls are frm poor homes nd wud wnt to gve d imprsion de r super rich hence every potbellied man with a car mounts and give money..mbanu!!

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  3. I've always known I ain't going to marry a girl jobless woman let a lone girl..its a no no!! Espcialy d fact most girls are frm poor homes nd wud wnt to gve d imprsion de r super rich hence every potbellied man with a car mounts and give dem money..mbanu!!

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  4. I've always known I ain't going to marry a jobless woman let a lone girl..its a no no!! Espcialy d fact most girls are frm poor homes nd wud wnt to gve d imprsion de r super rich hence every potbellied man with a car mounts and give dem money..mbanu!!

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  5. The fact to me is that. It's better to settle down with a working class lady. She more exposed in almost every aspect.

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  6. The fact to me is that. It's better to settle down with a working class lady. She more exposed in almost every aspect. And this a very good post.

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  7. Chingum girls are a no for me they get wahala. i pick big always. Sly

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  8. I don't believe it.before my sister meet her hubby she is everything u can think of,at 12 years den if she talk or do something u will wonder is it this little girl are doing this.if God don't help u in marriage forget it.nenyeoma@gmail.com

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  9. What makes a man stay is your attitude. A student with a good attitude would get employment any where!

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  10. Ogbeni Park well. Makes sense but no sense at all! Dyu know about 42% of undergrads are self employed? Or you think every girl/lady "begs for recharge cards"? OK! Are you trying to say all working class ladies earn huge salaries? For your info, there are people using exotic cars (given to them by their companies) still their accounts are red! I've seen cases like that! Oga get your facts right before you waste time in writing factless articles. Shio!

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    1. Are you sure you understand the article? I advise you to go through it once more! Seems you are the exact person the writer was referring to. Please don't be a recharge card beggar, get yourself a work. #MyFridayOpinion

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    2. Ooh little boy, I read every bit of it. I am not a recharge card beggar and will never be. I guess that's what your sisters do. So I think you should send them the article, maybe they will CONNECT to it. #MySaturdayOpinion

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  11. Same here Olu, I dinnor agree at all!

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  12. I believe a lady
    who has been trained to be a good wife will be,

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  13. Times have changed but if your woman is not trust worthy set up a business for her as men sleep with easy ladies in offices anyhow
    Barry

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  14. Very very Factual!

    olutoscene1@gmail.com

    #Olu,can you see?

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  15. one thing I knw is that, a gud wife is always a gud wife weda dey went to school or not... anyways dis is jxt an upper hand for her to b educated dats all

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  16. one thing I knw is that, a gud wife is always a gud wife weda dey went to school or not... anyways dis is jxt an upper hand for her to b educated dats all

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  17. Guy cos you're lucky with a working class lady doesn't mean it's the same everywhere. Stop generalising joor.

    dec.16th@yahoo.com

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  18. I dey gbadun the writer jare, some girls believe that its only the guy that should be taking responsibility of everything, especially when they jam a wealthy man, all that will be ringing in their heads is how to pour all their family wahala on the man. You better start looking for something to be doing now, be self dependent, don't kill your bf before marriage. #MyFridayOpinion

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  19. Marriage is all about loyalty and trust. If those two elements are alive in any marriage, there will be nothing to fear whether the wife is at home or out there working.

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  20. I sincerely agreed with classy Oyinye on this issue.

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  21. I sincerely agreed with you classy Oyinye on this issue. Pls get your facts right

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    1. God bless you my dear. Some ignorant ignoramus don't even read posts, they just agree with everything without reasoning. Most of these guys are even liabilities, looking for already made ladies. You get sense jor

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  22. I agree 80percent wit d writer esp number 2 and ds article is based on fact... But nt undergraduate falls in ds catergory but most of dem..

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  23. The best girl to marry is undergraduate. The reason is because the accept you the way you are and they are ready to stay with you even in one room apartment. but working class ladies as the name implies has class, friends that will come to visit and rich associate which she will be competing with at office. Undergraduate dont know the value of money yes but the are better than the ones that knows the value of money because if you give undergraduate 5k she will thank you but if you give working class 100k she will call you poor man because she knows the value.

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  24. I agree with some part of the write-up, but not everything

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  25. Everyone to his own opinion anyway, una know the wahala wen 'e dey follow 90% of working class ladies? Hummmmm, marriage is not courtship, please get your girl for Love in if from a getto and polish her into a wife material, build her into a working class standard of your choice while she serves just one BOSS which is You and just You.

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