Here's the story of another man who got more than he bargained for in marriage:
“We exchanged vows in a colorful wedding a few weeks back, even though I highly suspected that my wife was already pregnant with another man’s baby, but I married her anyway.. My suspicions became true when we recently visited a family doctor for routine check ups.
The doctor said she was four months pregnant. My Christian values ensured that I and my wife did not engage in s*xual activities before tying the knot, therefore cementing my belief that she cheated on me.
I have since been heartbroken because I feel that I was cheated into marriage. I am seriously contemplating opting out even after sacrificing time during courtship and spending on a costly wedding.
Despite caring for my wife I cannot forgive her because there is no trust in our relationship.”What do you think; should he forgive and take care of the child, or once a cheat always a cheat?
It's possible she's another virgin Mary carrying another Jesus
ReplyDeleteKick that deceptive immortal bitch out of your house
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Once a cheat, is forever a cheat ooo.. Such a lady can kill her husband. Walahi
ReplyDeleteOlu, do you think the love of that man to the newly wedded wife can remain the same again?. i dont think so. if the man feel that he cannot handle the situation, its better for both to go separate way to avoid marriage calamity that will never heal for life.
ReplyDeleteWhen he had suspected her why did he not seek for pregnancy test before entering into the relationship? This is why some churches insist on pregnancy test before people are joined in marriage.
ReplyDeleteabomination, he should send her packing!
ReplyDeleteWhen there is no trust between you what remains?
ReplyDeletein this situation, he has every right to dump her and remarry. this is the only time divorce is endorsed in the bible, because she came into the marriage in falsehood
ReplyDeleteThat woman is a big cheat and heartless. The man should just forget about the marriage.
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ReplyDeleteAs far as am concerned the marriage is over..the lady is a cheat.she doesn't deserve this guy
It's a difficult situation and the relationship may lack trust.
ReplyDeleteWhy the question again?.He should divorce & go on with his life by searching for a trust wife and not the cheat one. What is the possibility that she will not cheat again?.
ReplyDeleteYou both are to for medical check up before marriage and not after marriage. You foolishly married her after suspecting she was pregnant for someone else, what advice do you want from the public? The ball is in your court, you decide.
ReplyDeleteIt was wrong of her,she is a cheat
ReplyDeleteHe was deceived. This is a bitter a pill to swallow.
ReplyDeleteU highly suspected her, yet u still married her. U are confirming ur fears late because u should have don ur investigation earlier b4 tying d knots. For if u can leave it go ahead with d marriage but expect more n don't complain when d time comes.
ReplyDeletefor me she can call on me for any assistance if she needs it but the child has a father so he can take care of his child for her cheating on me when i respected her womanhood to the point of getting pregnant for another man under my nose is too much i will divorce her because its a scar on me and a whole lot of distrust
ReplyDeleteOpting out is the best option to safe your life dear brother.
ReplyDeleteThe guy is stupid bcos before the wedding churches do request for pregnant test and Hiv test from both party. How manage they never carryout those test
ReplyDeleteWell, 2 4give her is d tin of d mind, but ur wife is so wicked? Y did she go ahead with d wedding having knwn she is already pregnant. Dats disheartening
ReplyDeleteThat is women for you
ReplyDeleteYou better send her parking before she kill you
ReplyDeleteSerz gbege..
ReplyDeleteInitially You made the highest mistake, before you marry a woman subject her to series of test. Check for blood compactibility. For having patience to sleep with your wife after marriage signifies that you are a good Christian. It has happened, and this might be a test for you by your maker. The only option there is to forgive and forget. Allow her to bear the child ,although you are not the biological father but take the child as your own, it will definitely attract a heavy blessings to you. But if you feel that you can not cope or comprehend go for divorce. The decision is yours, heaven will approve what ever one you choose, but abundant blessings as you choose the formal.
ReplyDeleteThe wife is not fit to beyour wife....
ReplyDeleteThe wife did not create a room for forgiveness...
ReplyDeleteMistakes do happen... Yes, but she had all the time during courtship to let the cat out of the bag, but she waited to encage the man with marriage...
To be factual, the wedding was null and void since there was no true and considerate motive from the wife...
Divorce is the best option.... Once a cheat always a cheat, NO... But she made a mistake of witholding the truth...
God have mercy...
Olu, forward this to the man....
Virgin Mary again
ReplyDeleteGod have mercy
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