Dear Tiwa,
I have nothing but love for you, but after I watched all 45 mins or so of your interview, I am a bit disappointed.
Tiwa, I know it hurts when a relationship breaks down, and those accusations T Billz made were extremely hurtful, nonetheless, I believe you could have employed caution when responding, since according to you, he was unstable and suicidal. In law, if for instance, you walk in on your man in bed with another woman and you shoot him on the spot, you could get a lighter sentence, if your legal counsel argues provocation. On the flip side, if you walk out of the scene to get a gun and then launch an attack, it's now considered premeditated.
The fact that you granted a 'pitch perfect' interview, with a flawless visual background and superb audio quality, in my opinion looks a bit premeditated.
If you had denied all his accusations and asked to swear on ayelala or amadioha or sango as against the lie detector test, since on no instance has a polygraph ever been used in Nigeria, and if afterwards you had requested for privacy, as you deal with such a sensitive issue, this matter would have been laid to rest. How are you going to tell Nigerians not to talk about issues you 'used your own hand' to make public? This could only serve to further delay your healing.
Even though my prayer is for your issues to be resolved and for joy to return to your home, the breakdown of a marriage is not the end of the world, I have been through it and my world did not end. However, do you realize that the interview you gave could lead to the end of TJ's world? Who is now going to hire, work with, or have any business dealings with an unstable, adulterous, fraudulent, cocaine sniffer who cannot manage money and has his priorities misplaced? Whether you like it or not, that is what the interview has delineated him to be. In furtherance to this, if he was suicidal before, this interview is only going to make him even more suicidal!
I know you both love Jamil so in all this drama, lets be very careful to shield him, as the Internet never forgets and his friends and classmates will always have his father's tweets along with your interview as points of reference.
If you had denied all his accusations and asked to swear on ayelala or amadioha or sango as against the lie detector test, since on no instance has a polygraph ever been used in Nigeria, and if afterwards you had requested for privacy, as you deal with such a sensitive issue, this matter would have been laid to rest. How are you going to tell Nigerians not to talk about issues you 'used your own hand' to make public? This could only serve to further delay your healing.
Even though my prayer is for your issues to be resolved and for joy to return to your home, the breakdown of a marriage is not the end of the world, I have been through it and my world did not end. However, do you realize that the interview you gave could lead to the end of TJ's world? Who is now going to hire, work with, or have any business dealings with an unstable, adulterous, fraudulent, cocaine sniffer who cannot manage money and has his priorities misplaced? Whether you like it or not, that is what the interview has delineated him to be. In furtherance to this, if he was suicidal before, this interview is only going to make him even more suicidal!
I know you both love Jamil so in all this drama, lets be very careful to shield him, as the Internet never forgets and his friends and classmates will always have his father's tweets along with your interview as points of reference.
Very good words to learn from
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ReplyDeleteFreeze is absolutely right on ds 1, tiwa shouldn't ve laid dose on d lines..inumidun
ReplyDeleteBoth sides, nay everyone, should learn from this episode. Don't rush into marriage. Study each other and ask salient questions and resolve likely areas of conflict before you say, 'I do'. During the courtship you have every opportunity to call it quit and avoid regret. May God help them and all of us.
ReplyDeleteFreeze. Is making common sense
ReplyDeleteTrue talk indeed
ReplyDeletethats true. the lady wana spoil her husband carear
ReplyDeleteTwo wrongs cannot make a right, the interview she granted make it a childish approach to a burning issues.
ReplyDeleteFreeze must talk in every situation. He made some sense tho *yawns*
ReplyDeleteBS: 'expecting the goodies meant for olufamous faithful readers' *winks*. It will be greatly appreciate at this time.
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@Remi,well said.
ReplyDeleteWhy is Tutu's comments removed. I liked her comment. Please put it back. It makes common sense.
ReplyDeleteWhy is Tutu's comments removed. I liked her comment. Please put it back. It makes common sense.
ReplyDeleteFreezer u talk well they are both immature but we should just leave them alone now and pray for their reunion everything is possible by his Grace.what they are facing now is traumatic.
ReplyDeletevery good words but the man in question didn't act like a man too. he messed up.
ReplyDeletePunks..yall.
ReplyDeleteOur Holy Prophet of Islam (PBABWH) said that if you are annoyed, don't talk and when you are happy; don't promise.
ReplyDeleteBoth of dem got it wrong from d very beginning.
ReplyDelete#Olu, can you see?
Oga hold your peace.nenyekutes@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteU disagree with you. Are you suggesting she keep quiet as usual when the husband did not think about his wife carrier?
ReplyDeleteIf tiwa had kept quiet what do you think people will be saying?
Abeg, let anyone that as had a failed marriage not advice them.
Rubbish!
Freeze lack common sense and he is a fool for accused Tiwa for Tbillz. When same freeze had problem with his ex wife, nobody abuse him or his ex wife. Why is freeze doing it now.... Freeze is an ineffectual buffon
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