If your parents told you that the man you are dating is your meal ticket, then they are wrong. If you are the one who just sit and decide that your man must be your maga, then you are absolutely wrong.
A lady, Genny Okoli, just shared tips to help young ladies calm down and build a relationship...
1. He loves s*x. He's a man, so stop pretending that you're surprised that he is always hor-ny for you, it's just normal. Given a chance, he would do it anytime and anywhere. So you better stop denying him that "thing" especially if you gonna make noise when he gets himself another lady.
2. Your man may have a small "thing". It's not about how deep he can go in you, it's about how deep his love is for you.
3. You shouldn't be acting up every time he comes quick, you should be happy he came, because that simply means you are too awesome to delay. After all, its not about how long he can last in bed, it's about how long the relationship will last.
4. Don't ever compare him with your Ex. If your Ex was so good, why did you guys leave yourselves?
5. If he's good in bed, be grateful. If he's poor in bed, talk to him. He'll do something about it.
6. Never attack him verbally in public. It's a huge offense! Phela y'all are lovers, not politicians.
7. Never answer his calls, if they wanted to talk to you, they would've called you instead.
8. If he has money, he'll spend it with you. If he's comfortable at the moment, kneel and pray for him.
9. Don't be acting up, anytime his wallet is empty. He came into your life to love you, not to bail you out.
10. Always remember that he came to attend your heart affairs, not financial affairs.
#Take note: Nobody is perfect, meet him halfway.
- by Genny Okoli
1. He loves s*x. He's a man, so stop pretending that you're surprised that he is always hor-ny for you, it's just normal. Given a chance, he would do it anytime and anywhere. So you better stop denying him that "thing" especially if you gonna make noise when he gets himself another lady.
2. Your man may have a small "thing". It's not about how deep he can go in you, it's about how deep his love is for you.
3. You shouldn't be acting up every time he comes quick, you should be happy he came, because that simply means you are too awesome to delay. After all, its not about how long he can last in bed, it's about how long the relationship will last.
4. Don't ever compare him with your Ex. If your Ex was so good, why did you guys leave yourselves?
5. If he's good in bed, be grateful. If he's poor in bed, talk to him. He'll do something about it.
6. Never attack him verbally in public. It's a huge offense! Phela y'all are lovers, not politicians.
7. Never answer his calls, if they wanted to talk to you, they would've called you instead.
8. If he has money, he'll spend it with you. If he's comfortable at the moment, kneel and pray for him.
9. Don't be acting up, anytime his wallet is empty. He came into your life to love you, not to bail you out.
10. Always remember that he came to attend your heart affairs, not financial affairs.
#Take note: Nobody is perfect, meet him halfway.
- by Genny Okoli
Marriage can work if both parties agreed and are committed to make it work. Just understand and tolerate each other!
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ReplyDeleteInteresting, i pray some ladies will learn from this. PHILL.
ReplyDeleteComing from a lady? I love this! Olu pls, link me to her! I'd loved to marry her.
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ReplyDeleteSome men are like that some men don't have work while there woman is the one coming home with money but greedness will not let them be thankful but be wicked to the woman she will b good wife Wen she bring but bard woman Wen she did not, is for every one let's no how to treat each other with respect and love
ReplyDeleteThats true
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ReplyDeleteHmm..well, hope they listen and learn.
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Gbam!
ReplyDeleteThe earlier the better, hope they will listen.
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ReplyDeleteBest advice for ladies if they will hear.
ReplyDeleteI like 1,4,9,10 points, nice write up
ReplyDeleteI agree with her
ReplyDeleteConfirm! Fact!
ReplyDelete#Olu,can you see?
In as much as a agree that ladies should treat their man well, man should also love their wife truly. men do not expect your wives to love you unconditionally when you can not love her back.
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