I usually laugh whenever I see girls who think that marriage is all about cash; they must marry a rich man by force or even if they marry a regular guy they will be sleeping with a rich man by the side. Those are clear manifestations of poor parental upbringing... men and women, money is not marriage.
Money is very good but the thing that would keep you to enjoy that money for the rest of your life is the heart with which you got married. If you marry with wrong motives, even after 10 years, it will crash.
Now their mutual attraction has run its full course and has thus flickered out like a dying firelight. Dabota has moved out of their matrimonial home.
She moved out of the marriage citing incompatibility among other irreconcilable differences. What came as a shock to those who know the ‘couple’ was that they put up a façade of bliss everywhere they went during their ill-fated relationship and made many look forward to getting hooked to sugar daddy.
The lesson: marriage is a divine institution, don't go into it with greed or plan B or any other kind of plan.
Money is very good but the thing that would keep you to enjoy that money for the rest of your life is the heart with which you got married. If you marry with wrong motives, even after 10 years, it will crash.
Despite her older husband's Billions and mansion in Banana Island, Dabota Lawson is said to have ran away from her matrimonial home. All the things that are making some girls sleep around; such as big phones, brazilian hair, expensive vacations, big cars and much more she got from her husband.
So what happened? What has led to the end of their "enjoyment" marriage?
As reported by The Capital:
Full-length mink coats, a new Mercedes Benz 4matic or Range Rover Evoque and a tastefully furnished mansion in highbrow Banana Island, Victoria Island, Lagos, makes falling in love with an older man a.k.a Sugar Daddy, pretty easy and so much fun for a young lady.
Add to the mix, access to credit cards and the possibilities presented by the sugar daddy’s ownership of a private jet, and you have a gleeful, girly paramour whose joy knows no limits.
Although some would readily cite falling in love truly with her rich old lover but that is simply one defense that could hardly stand the test of doubts. Ask Dabota Lawson, the former beauty queen who ‘married’ Novena Boss, Sunny Aku not too long ago.
A mistress should be like a little country retreat near the town, not to dwell in constantly, but only for a night and away. But Billionaire Sunny, who lost his last wife to the cold hands of death years ago, did not see it that way. Or maybe he knew, but he thought she could change.
So what happened? What has led to the end of their "enjoyment" marriage?
As reported by The Capital:
Full-length mink coats, a new Mercedes Benz 4matic or Range Rover Evoque and a tastefully furnished mansion in highbrow Banana Island, Victoria Island, Lagos, makes falling in love with an older man a.k.a Sugar Daddy, pretty easy and so much fun for a young lady.
Add to the mix, access to credit cards and the possibilities presented by the sugar daddy’s ownership of a private jet, and you have a gleeful, girly paramour whose joy knows no limits.
Although some would readily cite falling in love truly with her rich old lover but that is simply one defense that could hardly stand the test of doubts. Ask Dabota Lawson, the former beauty queen who ‘married’ Novena Boss, Sunny Aku not too long ago.
A mistress should be like a little country retreat near the town, not to dwell in constantly, but only for a night and away. But Billionaire Sunny, who lost his last wife to the cold hands of death years ago, did not see it that way. Or maybe he knew, but he thought she could change.
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| Places they traveled to around the world, while in the marriage. |
She moved out of the marriage citing incompatibility among other irreconcilable differences. What came as a shock to those who know the ‘couple’ was that they put up a façade of bliss everywhere they went during their ill-fated relationship and made many look forward to getting hooked to sugar daddy.
The lesson: marriage is a divine institution, don't go into it with greed or plan B or any other kind of plan.








Seriously,iconcurred. It's high time we re-orient our Nigerian ladies about LOVE, LIFE, MONEY AND ETERNITY!
ReplyDeleteThe love of money is the root of all evil. Money is not love! Divorce is a shameful thing, but the rate at which people are getting divorced is just absurd. It's her mess, let her clean it up.
ReplyDeleteIf these men can jst listen to me, their are beautiful and good girls in the village, leave all dis girls dat claim I knw too much (wassup girls) all of them are after money no love again not getting married to a girl dat does not suffer with me final
ReplyDeleteThis is like a house built on a mere sand without a solid foundation.
ReplyDeleteEh ehn! After all the flaunting and 'fake' marital bliss. Hmmm I guess she has made enough investment while in the marriage. It's their palava.
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I knew it would end. It's obvious she got in their for the money. She still get that Runs gurl mentality. Kai fine girl behaving mumuish. Beauty with out brains. Who go marry her now.? Lol
ReplyDeleteWedding and marraige are two different thing... marraige is a life time affair... that's what we young girls don't understand... girls nowadays dream for a wedding, a big wedding... that's why divorce is a child's play these days
ReplyDeleteOlu famous second wife
Olu famous second wife
Make she go Plantain Island na may r she go see another rich man wey go look her side. All na lack of focus. Sly
ReplyDeleteNoted...
ReplyDeleteand i jst talk am today say all this girls dey look for sugar daddy for chop their money and runaway
ReplyDeletemost of it is poverty, again greedy, and most of them will be in the marriage and see another fresh guy and think of leaving the man for the guy, also she will use the opportunity to turn there old house at village to mansion, they still don't care if they go out of the marriage bc the never love the man, men be careful with such women
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not something you can rush into whether you are a Christian or Muslim, because you need divine intervention of God in the journey of marriage. If you rushed into marriage because of material things of life such as exotic cars, beautiful mansions, etc. You will rush out at the end of the journey. Make Christ as the pillar of your marriage all good things of life is in Him
ReplyDeleteNo marriage is beyond repair, let her seek private meeting with her husband and beg him, unless she has her eyes outside already
ReplyDeleteBarry
This is result women get when they flaunt their relationship on social media.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm. dats true. Issues of Marriage is much more than eye-saw. Its absolutely divine nd it takes grace to retain it.
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#Olu,can you see?
hope u will another husband.marriage is work if u are ready for it forget it.money is not everything.nenyekutes@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteAll that glitter are not gold, gold is on the inside.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is a school where you will get certificate before experience but under normal cirmcumstances you will under go study & expereince if you went to academic/schools/institution, even as an apprentice in an informnal sector you will gainer the knowledge before your master will issue you a certificate. Not all glitters are gold run into marriage because of material things cannot stand the test of time. Anyway people will beging to count the number of divorce steps for her
ReplyDeleteWomen and money God help us
ReplyDeleteThe love of money is the root of all evil
ReplyDeleteThe marriage has always been built on something other than Love and affection..let her bear the brunt of being fake.
ReplyDeleteMr Olu that lady intentionally went into the marriage for money and has long time had plan to self crash the marriage so she could get her own share of the money bag Kuku, hopefully the man was smart enough to have signed some kind of prenup if that is the case in Nigeria. She accomplished her mission
ReplyDeleteU talk well Gabby
DeleteSo she played the man and vamoosed? Dia ris God o!
ReplyDeleteI fine it hard 2 understandin niaja gurs . I dnt kwn dere mindset is all abt money if u dnt ave money as a guy oyo is ur case ... d probe is dat dey refuse 2 learn 4rm others ... God help dem shay
ReplyDeleteGreed..inumidun
ReplyDeletec as the man dey like him papa
ReplyDeleteThe concept of marriage should be understood by all before venturing into it
ReplyDeleteLove of money is the root of fake love..
ReplyDeleteShe had it coming
ReplyDeleteIfy
Fools paradise, money can't buy love
ReplyDeletei hope the ladies don't just read but also learn from all these posts everyday... thank you olu for always talking much about marriage, at least the ones that will learn will not go astray
ReplyDeleteNo surprise there. The age gap between them is massive and the man is too old to meet her sexual needs. Money was the only factor that brought them together and she may have grabbed enough for herself to stand on her own and coupled with alimony defrayals that comes with divorce. The man should have seen this coming. sad
ReplyDeleteWhy is money not the most important thing in life?
ReplyDelete#Clear manifesto of poor parential upbringing, See description, Olufamous don vex oo
ReplyDeleteDnt marry a man bcos of his wealth
ReplyDeleteThe mentality and orientation that some ladies have about marriage leaves one wondering if such ladies would ever be fit for marriage...What a shame that the marriage crashed just like that
ReplyDeleteWhen money is what make both parties comes together.packing out will b d next tin.
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