My wife I and have been married for five years now. All this while I never hit her, no matter what happens, but I don’t know what came over me, I hit a few weeks ago and can’t forgive myself.
We were involved in a heated argument and though I had never seen her react the way she did, all of a sudden I lost my temper and slapped her in the face and used some terrific words against her; since then she has asked for some space.
I would never hurt her, she is the best thing that ever happened to me and I love her and can’t live without her.
She said she has forgiven me but I can tell by her looks that she has lost some love for me...
She said she has forgiven me but I can tell by her looks that she has lost some love for me...
This hurts me the most. How can I make this up to her? I told her that this would never happen again, that I was sorry and loved her with all my heart. She said she loves me and was not going to leave me but she needed some space.
Please I really need advice from anyone who has had a similar experience or anyone out there, who has an idea for me on how to make it up to her, or will our marriage be like this forever?
Please I really need advice from anyone who has had a similar experience or anyone out there, who has an idea for me on how to make it up to her, or will our marriage be like this forever?
I cannot bear this any longer.
Sir.... take ur wife out for shopping, buy her gifts, dinner ... renew ur love....and try to control ur temper next time
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Just try and respect her decision. Give her the space she ask for and try to be good to her at all times while giving her the space let her understand how much u love and cherish her and how much u regrets what u did even through ur actions cos action speaks louder than voice. She just need some time to get over what happen cos time heals all. And don't try to pressure her cos by doing so u might end up pushing her far far away. I'm sure that teens will get back to the way they were in no time. Just have faith
ReplyDeleteWell let things move normally and show her more love. And ask God to lead you on how to go about the situation.
ReplyDeleteTime has a way of healing wounds.with time she will overcome it.just continue to be very nice to her.
ReplyDeleteTime has a way of healing wounds.with time she will overcome it.just continue to be very nice to her.
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ReplyDeleteShe is still hurt so give her sometime but don't stop apologising and showing you are sorry. Keep showing her you love her and I'm sure she'll forgive you completely. Make sure it doesn't occur again. Walking away is the best solution when you are angry.
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Continue to be a loving husband to her. Make her happy at all times. With time everything will be settled
ReplyDeleteAwww. Your love for your wife is genuine. I believe she has forgiven you as she said, I feel the "hit" came to her as a shock as you've never done it before. As for her needing space, sometimes it could help clear the mind and maybe that's what she wants to do. She already assured you she won't leave you. Just pray and commit the situation into God's hands and maybe she could change her mind.
ReplyDeleteJust give her some time. she is still shocked and suprised u could do such. Keep loving her and show her more love. U people will be happy again.
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#Olu,can you see?
Just give her some time. she is still shocked and suprised u could do such. Keep loving her and show her more love. U people will be happy again.
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#Olu,can you see?
yu are a gud man den, jxt tnk God she did not liv ur home ... mayb it happened so yu will learn a lesson, jxt treat heat her nicely
ReplyDeleteJust do what makes her happy and let her see that u ain't happy with ur self also take her out for dinner show her love and control ur temper make sure it never happen again
ReplyDeleteHurting a woman can costba man a whole lot.
ReplyDeleteNa woman shakara you dey take serious like this? You no get work abeg. Sly
ReplyDeleteIf she is a good wife like you say then give her some time everything will be fine in ur home
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Tell her the truth of how much U have been hurting bout these problems.
ReplyDeleteTime has a way of healing wounds.with time she will overcome it.just continue to be very nice to her.
ReplyDeleteWell from my experience, a good number of women usually find it so very difficult to say "sorry" to their husband even when they are wrong! And they enjoy being told sorry a million times in just 24hrs.But in a situation like this, you are supposed to tell her sorry which you claimed to have done, while she reciprocates because she also may have some fault while the argument was on before the slap issue came in. Well my advice to you at this junction is to continue telling her sweet words at all time, try and joke with her even if she fail to respond positively. Carry her on your back when are you are both alone and tell her you carrying her on your back to UK by road because she is your new born baby. Just turn into a joker at this moment.
ReplyDeleteTake your wife out for lunch, dinner and shopping. Play with her alot, let her smile all the time in order to forget the issue
ReplyDeleteHe shd know her love language by naw, he shd concentrate on dt, love her more, with time she will come arnd, but the man need constant updating of love jst to re-assure her
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