My boyfriend is ok and drives a Range Rover sport. He is a business man, he sells phones and laptops, but he does not have a house of his own to sleep because he claims Abuja is too expensive.
My boyfriend still lives with his friends in an apartment where they are up to 6 of them. He said they pay 20k each to raise the rent. Every time we had sex was in my house...
Apparently he lives with me cause most of his things are in my house. I was very very ok with it since I work and we both love each other. He just proposed yesterday and I accepted, but am so scared.
My fear is, where will we live?
How will he organise the wedding when he can’t even afford a house? So I confronted him with my fears and his reply to me was – "baby, why did you think I want to marry you ? I want to marry you cause you are a strong woman and I know you will support me. Baby if I don’t have a house, you have a house, if I can’t pay for our wedding, baby you are working, if I fall, you should hold me. That is why 2 will become one."
I was so, so shocked! He further said we will maintain the self contained I live in now and share the rent, and as for our wedding we will make it portable with the contribution we will get.
I told my mum about this recent development and she asked me to return his engagement ring to him, that the man will be a liability to me.
Please should I listen to my mum OR endure and stay with my boyfriend, hoping things will get better?
Lmaooo nothing person no go see for dis life
ReplyDeleteI hope u have a good job right..such a man is a misfit to ur destiny..and don't forget he will soon see
Deletesome1 better than u and dump. U
Enter your comment...pls live him I agree with your mum return dat ring.nenyeoma@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteWithout anyone telling you what to do you,yourself should know that such marriage can't work.so let go of him so that you will not regret your action in future.
ReplyDeleteAre you sure this guy is not 419 or trickstar? Abi what kind of responsible, straight man would own a Range and not ve atleast a reented apartment of his? "Shine your eye, opolo eye no be open eye".
ReplyDeletehis eighter a driver for d car or borrowed it to pose or his lazy...my advice, help him get a source of earning b4 jumping into marriage
ReplyDeleteAbeg, run no fly till you meet him then return his ring and cut him off your mind and memory
ReplyDeleteYou and your boyfriend are the same. U want fakr big boy who is driving Range Rover and that is what u got so manage him like that. Sly
ReplyDeletePls return the ring with speed. He is not your husband.
ReplyDeleteYahoo boy no laptop... Odikwa fake... Pls return the ring and stop wasting ur time, his priorities ar wrng, drive a range(borrow a range) and dnt av a place..
ReplyDeleteIf u wanna marry a fake man..go ahead dear!
ReplyDeletePlease, your man is not ok. If he drives Range Rover Sport which cost fortune in Abuja and claims accommodation is expensive then he is not ready for marriage. Does he go about selling his wares in his car or he has a shop? Compel him to at least rent a two bedroom flat at the suburb that you will support him to achieve that.. If he agrees, go ahead but if not.let him go. Don't ever marry a man because you pity him.
ReplyDeleteShine ur eyes o gal
ReplyDeleteListen to your mum immediately.
ReplyDeleteWell nothing is impossible cos it can either get better or be worse so u should think hard and pray hard as well
ReplyDeleteThat's a really player .
ReplyDeleteMost of the big boys in abuja that's their lives style, u have to sit him down and talk some senses into him or tell him you are putting the wedding on hold.
ReplyDelete"Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God." (2 Corinthians 1:3-4)
ReplyDeleteLol. This is a difficult one. Any way make a serious background check on him. If he us found wanting return the ring. If other wise just accept him.
ReplyDeleteWisdom is profitable to direct. Ask God for wisdom
ReplyDeleteWoman, be wise. Going into the marriage could be dangerous.
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#Olu,can you see?
That is abuja for uuuu, fake lives everywhere
ReplyDeleteAbuja guy's packaging, please find out the souce of that Range because it's so confusing.
ReplyDeleteWhat? In this 2016?
ReplyDeleteYahoo boyz don come again, datz how dey act😁
ReplyDeleteYour name na sorry
ReplyDeleteSincerely speaking i don't believe some of your posts olu
ReplyDeleteYoung lady,you have entered one chance and the driver has announced to you that the bus you are in,is a one chance bus.Decide how you want to escape; jumping out on motion or allow them take everything they can take(including your body) and they "may" let you go. A word is enough.
ReplyDeleteIf you dont have a leg i will borrow you mine to run.
ReplyDeleteOlu, if this guy loves this girl, he should sell the car to get a comforable apartment for the girl.
ReplyDeleteHe's not a serious person
ReplyDelete~Olufamous blog queen~
Listen to your mum
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