I work in this office and my Boss and his wife have been married for about 11 years without a child and the wife filed for a divorce not too long ago. We started a relationship when he came down about a year ago and wished I could get pregnant for him.
We use to have unprotected s*x a lot but I didn't see any sign of pregnancy so I concluded he may be the one with a problem, hence his wife's decision to leave him. We decided not to have s*x again on the 1st of January as we both feel guilty after the act.
I suggested an abortion but he refused saying I'm depriving him of becoming a father besides he's getting to 40. If he end up not marrying me like my ex, my family will be very disappointed in me for allowing such happen to me again as I can't call this one a mistake.
Now there is a problem...
I tested positive when I checked with a test strip, so I'm pregnant. He's very happy but I'm not. He told me he wants to go and see my family and have the necessary rites performed in March.
My worry is he might not do so (as promised) and the pregnancy will start showing. I had the same problem with my first son's dad who always postponed the date for him to come and do the traditional rites till my tummy grew and everyone noticed I was pregnant yet he didn't marry me.
I suggested an abortion but he refused saying I'm depriving him of becoming a father besides he's getting to 40. If he end up not marrying me like my ex, my family will be very disappointed in me for allowing such happen to me again as I can't call this one a mistake.
I'm so confused and need your advice on what to do. Can I trust my boss?
You are a cheap she goat.
ReplyDeleteNo advice madam....
ReplyDeleteOlu famous second wife
Don't trust him, trust me. Mtchew! like you didn't know what the outcome would be
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don't worry he will marry u.abortion is not d best option. nenyeoma@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteI think its unwise of you to be like this after the first incidence,besides it shows you lack respect for God and lack character.Do not go for murder,the blood will speak against you,pray to God,perhaps your boss/fiancee may keep his promise,keep hope alive.
ReplyDeleteIt is a shame to be an option and not a priority!
ReplyDeleteIf you're certain his wife filed for a divorce and he wants to see your people, let him go ahead. But you did wrong by sleeping with someone else's husband so long as they're not divorced yet. Also put it in prayer.
ReplyDeleteMay be ur former guy was broke then so don't compare him with your boss. Be humble and he will marry u. Sly
ReplyDeletePressure him, pray and let him know you have to do the rightful thing if not, he should consider the pregnancy terminated. .#MyFridayOpinion
ReplyDeleteDont be surprise if the man's wife come back and say no more divorce if she heard her husband joystick is now functioning well hahahaha
ReplyDeleteAre you sure the pregnancy belongs to your Boss?
ReplyDeleteDon't abort d baby another one may not come when you end up married d man.pray so that d man can marry you.
ReplyDeleteSorry is your case
ReplyDeleteare you sure that pregnacy na for your boss? a man that can not impregnate his wife for 11yrs na impregnate you dis one na miracle ooo, that boss need go do thanks giving ooo. but meanwhile if the belle na he own and he wants to go see your people then allow his to go and do the rigth thing but persuade him to do it fast fast.
ReplyDeleteJust pray hard and give him a little more time to see if he will see ur family as promised
ReplyDeleteonce bitten twice shy, jst pray and hope for the best I am sure the man will take responsibility and do the needful and also constantly remind him of the right tin to do
ReplyDeleteKeep the baby, marry him. It ain't ur fault Ur fertile and his X ain't. It happened to a man I know so well..10 years and no child and he decided to try playing for another team nd gbaam! He scored!!
ReplyDeleteKmt after breaking somebody marriage u now think u will last, joker
ReplyDeleteyu b ashi b dat naaa
ReplyDeleteWell, the deed has been done. I won't advise you to abort the baby. U will be putting your health and/or life in danger. Keep the baby. The man will definitely take the baby because he hasn't had one before.
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#Olu,can you see?
Well, the deed has been done. I won't advise you to abort the baby. U will be putting your health and/or life in danger. Keep the baby. The man will definitely take the baby because he hasn't had one before.
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#Olu,can you see?
I clap for you.You got what you wanted.You were clearly in your right senses all along.you can't afford not to be now.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations if you are sure the pregnancy is for your Boss
ReplyDeleteYour boss said he wants to meet your family, that in itself has settled the case! Simply take him to your people and encourage him to do the needed rites on time...I don't think this matter is as difficult as you are making it sound. You can't be saying that he might not fulfil his promise when you've not even taken him to meet your family....Take him to your people immediately, and whatever his reaction is after that will determine your next line of action
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